SWINGERS CLUBS IN THAILAND
Bangkok · Pattaya · Phuket — verified active clubs & organizers
18+ only. Re-verified 28 Oct 2026: 4 of 5 listings operating (Lussuria, Sinful House, Phuket Secret Project, Pleasure Port). Club 2000 Pattaya is historic/unverified since 2019. Discreet venues publish no public Google Maps pin — each card links a Maps search instead. Always confirm the live event calendar before travelling. No venue addresses are published here — exact locations are shared with confirmed ticket holders only.
| # | Club / Organizer | City | Type | Status (checked 28 Oct 2026) | Website | Map |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| #1 | Bangkok | Club | ● Operating | Maps | ||
| #2 | Bangkok + Pattaya / Phuket events | Club / Community | ● Operating | Maps | ||
| #3 | Phuket | Party Organizer | ● Operating | SDC listing | Maps | |
| #4 | Phuket | Party Organizer | ● Operating | Maps | ||
| #5 | Club 2000 Thailand | Pattaya | Couples Resort | ● Unverified since 2019 — likely closed | via allswingersclubs.org | Maps |
| #6 | Koh Samui / Koh Phangan | Gulf islands | No permanent club — meetups only | ● No venue found | Maps | |
| #7 | Sukhumvit Soi 33 | Fetish/BDSM (24th yr) | ● Operating | Maps | ||
| #8 | Pattaya 3rd Road | Fetish/BDSM (22nd yr) | ● Operating | the-castle-pattaya.com | Maps | |
| #9 | BarBar Fetish Club | Patpong Soi 2 | Fetish shows (10 yrs) | ● Operating (via guides) | via thailandnightlife.net | Maps |
- 90 m² venue, max ~60 guests, 20-person playroom occupancy, private lockable playrooms, dance floor, outdoor area, pool access via partner hotel, lockers
- Events: Black Tie Erotic Masquerades, fantasy gatherings, poolside parties, lifestyle learning, LGBTQ+ / bi nights, couples-only swap nights (partly with Sinful House)
- Advance registration + membership card required; SDC members accepted
- ~35 min taxi from Sukhumvit per guest reviews; alcohol + food available
- Formats: Couples-only, Open night, Greedy Hotwives, themed nights, meet & greets
- Newbies to veterans welcome; couples, single women, approved single men, LGBTQ+ (eligibility varies by event)
- Age 20+, ID + ticket matching account; exact venue revealed to confirmed ticket holders
- Live calendar at events.sinfulhouse.com — always re-check before booking travel
- Values: consent, honesty, safety, sensuality, aesthetics, real connection
- Private invitation-only events; contact via SDC profile / phuketsecretproject.com
- Recent guests praise discreet, sophisticated, well-curated atmosphere
- Club 2000 Thailand — historic couples-only swingers resort (18 bedrooms around a private pool, ~1h from Bangkok airport). Listed on allswingersclubs.org; confirm whether it currently operates before booking.
- Glamour Resort and Spa — lifestyle-friendly boutique resort listed for Pattaya; hotel, not a dedicated swingers club.
- The Castle Pattaya — Demonia's sister fetish/BDSM club (22nd year, daily 17:30–late, monthly Couples Night) — now Pattaya's only verifiable lifestyle venue; see card #8.
- Sinful House Pattaya — scheduled weekend events + Pattaya chatroom (groups.sinfulhouse.com/thailand/pattaya); check live calendar.
- Swing in Thailand (swinginthailand.com) — long-running directory/community with city pages for Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, Chiang Mai; useful for contacts, less current than operator calendars.
- What exists: SDC island group + occasional private villa parties via SDC / Sinful House destination events
- Don't confuse with: Full Moon Party (Haad Rin), beach clubs, Chaweng/Lamai girly bars — mainstream nightlife, not lifestyle venues
- How to meet: join the SDC Koh Samui / Koh Phangan group before travelling; watch Sinful House calendar for island dates
- Monthly Couples Night (first Saturdays) + Locktober/Halloween dungeon editions; body-sushi dinners; private parties
- Beginner-friendly positioning with restraint-technique guidance; no-pressure atmosphere per reviews
- 21+, men/women/couples; mail [email protected] for prices and bookings
- Same formula as Demonia: monthly Couples Night (female partner free entry + first drink), Locktober dungeon editions, nyotaimori dinners
- Daily opening 17:30–late — the only Pattaya lifestyle venue with walk-in hours rather than invite-only dates
- Member benefits shared with Demonia Bangkok
- Live BDSM performances in a nightclub setting — watch with a drink, join in only if you want
- 950฿ entry for single or couple including one drink and the shows
- Good low-commitment first taste of kink before Demonia/Castle play nights
- Private, not walk-in: apply online, get vetted, buy a ticket for a specific date. Bring membership proof + ID matching your account.
- Couples-only vs open: couples-only nights are the calmest first visit; open / hotwife nights admit selected single men in controlled ratios.
- No photo / no pressure: no touching without permission, no means no, no photos or videos, phones often sealed. You may socialise and leave without playing.
- Costs: cover + drink minimums + optional private-room fees; couples / single women / single men priced differently. Never wire money to a personal account from a directory ad.
- Health: bring your own condoms, arrive clean, smart-casual dress. Reputable hosts brief consent + privacy at entry.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are there real swingers clubs in Thailand?
Yes — but mostly private members clubs and scheduled parties, not open bars. Bangkok has two established clubs (Lussuria, Sinful House); Phuket has organizers (Secret Project, Pleasure Port); Pattaya runs on resort stays and weekend events. Always verify a current dated event.
Can tourists join?
Yes if 20+ and vetted. Apply before you fly, read the specific event's audience rules, and bring ID matching your account. Membership approval does not guarantee a ticket to every night.
Can single men attend?
Sometimes. Couples-only nights exclude them; open and hotwife-format nights admit a limited, pre-approved number. Expect higher prices and stricter behaviour standards for single men.
Do I have to participate?
No. Watching, socialising, or leaving early is normal. Consent is freely given and can be withdrawn at any time.
How do I avoid scams / dead listings?
Look for a live calendar with future dates, clear admission + consent rules, an official domain + support channel, and platform checkout. Recheck the event page the day before travel — old forum posts and directories stay indexed long after operators change.
Bangkok vs Pattaya vs Phuket?
Bangkok: year-round calendar, broadest choice. Pattaya: weekend parties plus The Castle fetish club (daily hours). Phuket: smaller curated scene, best combined with a dated event announcement.
Where is the kink/BDSM scene?
Demonia (Sukhumvit Soi 33, 24th year) and sister club The Castle Pattaya (22nd year) run monthly Couples Nights, dungeon editions and beginners sessions. BarBar Patpong (950฿ incl. shows) is the low-commitment taster. All welcome couples; participation always optional.
Google reviews check (28 Oct 2026): the lifestyle venues above have no public Google Maps listing — addresses are shared with ticket holders only, so there is no Google rating to show. The fetish clubs do: Demonia and The Castle publish their addresses (Soi 33 / Pattaya 3rd Road) and show 5★ Google reviews on their own sites. Google Maps pages can't be scraped (JS-only app) — use SDC counts otherwise: Lussuria 56, Sinful House 19, Phuket Secret Project 8, Pleasure Port 0 (new).